You were once mesmerized by that smile. The perfect apple – shiny, polished, deep-red.
But as time goes, you have started to get used of his/her presence. Suddenly you realize that there are more than this apple in this world. You’re surrounded by oranges, mangoes, bananas, kiwi and other more exotic fruit. Your prefect, red and shiny apple seems boring and dull.
A Stable Relationship Is Good, But Also Predictable And Boring.
In the beginning of a relationship, everything is new and exciting. You can’t wait to see and hear from your new found friend. Once the two of you have been together for a while, you get comfortable and the newness has worn away. We must remember the things that first excited our heart about that person.
Keep the lines of communication open and take time for each other. Create special date nights, weekend getaways. If the relationship is worth it, find that excitement again.